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Sunday, November 16, 2008

How to win over a FRIEND




Don't wait for people to be friendly,

show them how.



-unknown-



5 comments:

naboonies said...

An advice that I need to take heed. I agree this makes wonders almost 100% of the time.

Z a F said...

yep.. i agree with you
i do love being around with people
smile on their faces and the laughter are my remedy of life

but when i do LIKE that person (currently zaf is head over heels with someone) ...
i become another person
speechless + shy + gaga
help me magma!!

*seriously i'm not even sure i can be myself in front of him.. gheeee~

Jocelyn said...

nice phrase :)

magma3637 said...

to nabooneis:
Good luck in it. Any progress so far?

to zaf:
Sorry for the late reply. If you like that person, why dont you just confess to him? Ok, I know it is easy to said but to do it? Maybe you can try some of these tricks.

Give him some hints. smile. eye contact. respond to his joke(although its a silly one) etc.

'jual mahal' a little. See how he respond. that way you can have a good hint on whether he does have the same feelings for you or not. To see if he is really worth it or not.

Show that you need him. Show that you trust him. Show that you rely on him. You can do this by referring to him if you have problem. Ask him to accompany you when you want to go somewhere.

And prepare your mind for any possibility. Maybe he already has someone that he love. If that happen, dont be too sad. Move on.

Good luck !

to jocelyn:
Thanks. Hope you can apply it in your life.

Chandira said...

Absolutely! If we all stood waiting, we'd all be pretty lonely.

One of my favourite quotes, "Love does not fail for you if you are rejected, betrayed or apparently not loved. Love fails for you if you reject, betray or do not love." Adi Da Samraj

It's always up to us to take action in love, first.